Transcendance - 6 ::: "Connecting learnings & events"

Prelude :: there has been some confusion in my numbering....of the postings & it is set right with the right sequencing now ...this is being recorded after 5 previous postings and becomes Trancenance -6.....

Dear All

I had narrated my experience of a program that I underwent at my office in my previous posting. While the sweet memories of the same is still lingering in my mind, I also got reminded that such self improvement tools get vapourised IF ONLY we dont keep working on them diligently...

As I was going to my parent's home for the week end, I had taken the course material with me hoping that I will get some time here and there to keep going through the concepts and get reminded of the tools that were blessed upon me during those wonderful 3 days workshop....

This piece is going to be too abstract but I am sure I can remember every single incident and the corresponding dialogue at home if I read through this posting after 3 / 4 decades from now with the references I am making in this posting about them. The intention is not to post the specific details too much in the blog - more than from confidentiality perspective - but from relevancy angle....It is enough and important to get this posted in this particular style instead of forgetting the whole episode completely over a period of time...

There was a worst ever communication gap that had happened at home and by the time I reached, things have gone to craziest plane that one of my mother was fuming on a non existent problem which unfortunately got twisted in her mind so much with some wrong statements made by some junior member of the family and my mother in a state of emotional breakdown....Having not slept for the past 1 week due to the ill health of my father, I could clearly empathise with her but was also quickly taking note of every wrong statements that was being made....by her quite out of her ignorance and also out of her mental exhaustion.

I got reminded of the bountiful tools that I had in the workshop and whistled within myself and started applying myself...from that moment at home, until now, I had been doing the patch works quite systematically with the right words, perfect delivery and the needed expression in the face (with a pinch of humour and a fierceful face as required to the dialogue to be delivered).....and think the unwanted feud will pass off completely in course of time.....!! This was a very balanced case study from human's perspective & clearly an example of "sour" relationships between people if not approached with some sincerity and maturity by some one who can see both sides of the problem (in this case it was poor me ...I am sorry, the rich me !!)

I wondered for a while if I should put this too in this blog which could make no sense for any reader but I am quite confident that any one who reads through this piece sincerely will be capable of (1) understanding the meaning of my words though it is sounded vague...which is deliberately vague;;;;;; (2) can relate to the situations in their own life and how they have managed tough challenges in their own life;;;;;;; & last but not the least (3) will not mind using this "manager in making" just in case I am needed for any problem to be solved....

Believe me, the person who makes this piece in the blog is not too eager to be a hero in any drama...can play a comedian's role OR quite eager to chip in with some trivial role...viz., a postman or a servant or a High court Judge...as we see in many of our Tamil movies....To me, its not what I do is important....just HOW I do it is more significant !! Perhaps I have lot more opportunities of "value additions" the more trivial the requirement is.......!!

krishnaarpanam...

suchoo