Transcendance - 14 ::: On Clarificaton

Prelude : this could be an unique piece in this entire series...Better read through and patiently also read the closing line....and I am sure you will agree
Dear Gowri
I had narrated on my first session with the senior people at office on communication when I glimpsed Sai Baba in the ring of a girl who was a participant...(Just connecting). As usual, after the session, there were half dozen participants around me and they were having some nice words about lot of aspects of my training.....(one boy, I mentioned earlier, told me that I reminded our "trainer" in delivering style !!)
Now, there was a timid boy who never participated during the discussion / session but I found grasping every word that I was uttering...came to me very closely and asked me a fundamental (simple) question...."Sir, you said we have to use DEAR for the first acquaintance even though it is a female....will they not get ackward ?"...
This is a childish question but this needs lot of maturity to answer....I patiently responded to him in full and made him feel encouraged about this habit of clarification. This boy, perhaps, for the first time asked a doubt...and I dont want to discount him any way that he did not ask this doubt during the session.
It would have been wonderful if I had the energy to crack him and make him ask his doubt in front of every one....There are too many factors why such miracles cannot happen....starting from my potential, this boy's personal situations, time pressure that I had to constantly face, his exposure to world, the maturity levels of other participants, this boy's perception of others' maturity....to name a few"...
I really feel proud that this boy did not go out of the board room without clarifying his doubt....I am sure this is a first step towards this boy coming out of the shell completely....and I wanted to give my 2 minutes to him while there were 5 others standing along with me.....!! If Grace descends on him, he will definitely be a wonderful boy and I just did my part perfectly well..

Now, this small episode is not about suchoo's transcendance...but this posting is dedicated to lot of wonderful people around us who are getting bogged down by their own karma....and would like to abruptly end this piece with a prayer....."Let those who are tongue tied and hesitant to open their mouth.....flower into normal human beings who are capable of asking clarifications OR questions ....".
Yes, this piece will remain unique in Transcendance series as it is dedicated to the T of others....me already on roller coaster !!!!
suchoo